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If you read my last post, you may remember that I chose JOY as my word for the year. The choice of this word has been confirmed again and again over the past few weeks.

I came across a note that I had written down some time ago. I recall that someone had asked me what the difference was between happiness and joy. This was in the notes for the book of Philippians in the Life Application Bible, New Living Translation.

"In contrast to happiness stands JOY. Running deeper and stronger, JOY is the quiet confident assurance of God's love and work in our lives--that he will be there no matter what! Happiness depends on happenings, but JOY depends on Jesus." [emphasis added]

I have added this to my auto signature in my email, so if you get multiple emails from me during this year, you'll see this quite often. No, I'm not apologizing... We all need this reminder.

At our first official prayer meeting of the year, the pastor shared I Thessalonians 5:16-18. I referenced it in The Passion Translation which I have been using in my verse of the day app. Side note - I typically will look up verses in several translations. In addition to TPT, I currently like the Christian Standard Bible (CSB), the New English Translation (NET), and the New Living Translation (NLT).

I Thessalonians 5:16-18 (TPT):

Let joy be your continual feast.

Make your life a prayer.

And in the midst of everything be

always giving thanks, for this is

God's perfect plan for you in Christ Jesus.

I'm trying to commit this to memory in this new version. I've chosen Proverbs 3:5-6 to memorize as well.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (TPT)

Trust in the Lord completely

and do not rely on your own opinions.

With all your heart rely on him to guide you,

and he will lead you in every decision you make.

Become intimate with him in whatever you do,

and he will lead you wherever you go.

In a quick Google search of the biblical meaning of joy, I found the following descriptions.

Biblical joy comes from the Lord. It is a perpetual gladness of the heart that comes from knowing, experiencing, and trusting Jesus. Martin Lloyd-Jones said, “joy, in other words, is the response and the reaction of the soul to a knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ.” (

Joy is a choice. Rick Warren gave us this definition of joy: “Joy is the settled assurance that God is in control of all the details of my life, the quiet confidence that ultimately everything is going to be alright and the determined choice to praise God in every situation.” (

I don't know what this year will bring. I have embarked on being more intentional in studying the Bible. Not just for studying's sake or checking the box on a task completed. I want to become more intimate with God - to truly know and experience Him.

I'm praying and trusting that I will have JOY in all circumstances.

I came across a "theme song" to go along with my "theme word," sung by one of my favorite Christian artists.


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Updated: Dec 28, 2023

The following is an adaptation from a sermon delivered by the blog writer at Ashland Brethren in Christ Church on January 1, 2023.


OT Scripture: Isaiah 43:18-19

NT Scripture: Ephesians 4:22-24

Welcome to the New Year – Welcome to 2023!

For some, the New Year is a way of saying goodbye to the previous year and looking forward to a new year. What are your expectations for 2023?

Do you look at it as being able to turn over a new leaf as you turn over the page on the calendar? Or open a new calendar as the case may be. Do you see it as a clean slate, as a way of starting over, beginning again?

We’ve probably all made New Year’s Resolutions at some point in our lives. Most often they have to do with our physical health – to lose weight, eat more healthfully, exercise more, stop a bad habit, etc. And we’ve probably all broken our well-intended resolutions within the first few days (or even hours) of making them. Certainly, our “resolve” is not strong enough to handle even the most realistic expectations we place on ourselves.

Or maybe you’ve started to go with the new trend over the last few years of picking a “word” for the upcoming year. The last word I picked in 2020 before the pandemic hit, was hope. I didn’t even bother picking a word for 2021 or 2022. Perhaps I unconsciously carried that hope with me over the last couple of years. Coincidentally, I’ve chosen “Joy” to be my word for 2023. We’ll see how that goes.

Perhaps you pick a verse or verses to represent what you’d like to accomplish over the new year. I’m seriously considering a couple, but I haven’t landed on one yet. Which leads to my progression of thought for this message - with each passing year and the older I get, I think what I, what we, should be focusing upon is our spiritual health. Now is the perfect time to have a spiritual check-up or check in with God, our creator, the Great Physician. And maybe our resolve – our resolutions for the year – will be more successful if we ask for God’s help and provision.

Let’s look at Ephesians 4:22-24. Actually, I’ll start in verse 21.

(21) Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, (22) throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. (23) Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. (24) Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. (NLT)

I like how the Passion Translation renders verse 24:

For God has re-created you all over again in his perfect righteousness, and you now belong to him in the realm of true holiness.

So what does renew in verse 23 mean?

I did a word study on “renew” using Strong’s Concordance and what I found was very interesting. The Greek word for renew is a derivative of the word renovate. I’m not going to try to pronounce it, but the word begins with two syllables that are repeated. An, An – which, in looking at the cross-reference for the compounded word, implied that it is repetitive or continuous.

The Expositor’s Bible Commentary states that Paul was reminding the Ephesians that “they were to be perpetually renovated in mind and spirit.”

Ashland Seminary professor, David deSilva says about the Ephesians passage “Ephesians offers guidelines about behaviors that reflect the “old nature” that is “corrupted by deceitful lusts” and therefore not a reliable guide to be followed and about the behaviors that proceed from the “new nature.” Because of their general nature, they cannot be mistaken for a new law but rather offer a resource that will help the self-examining disciple perceive which nature he or she is nurturing/cultivating.” The heading deSilva uses for this section in his NT survey book is walking in newness of life.

What I’m trying to point out is that this is a process – putting on the new nature, thus the ‘ing’ in walking, nurturing, and cultivating. Another commentator states that “although we have a new nature, we don’t automatically think all good thoughts and express all right attitudes when we become new people in Christ. But if we keep listening to God, we will be changing all the time.” Interestingly, they go on to say, “As you look back over last year, do you see a process of change for the better in your thoughts, attitudes, and actions? When we decide to accept Christ’s gift of salvation, it is both a one-time decision, as well as a daily conscious commitment.”

I don’t know about you, but when I first came to Christ when I was six, I had this idyllic picture that I would instantly become Christ-like when I asked him into my heart. My utopian view of being a Christian continued well into my later years. Little did I know that this would be a life-long process and that it would be one “resolution” that I wouldn’t be able to fully achieve this side of heaven. And because it didn’t happen instantly, I felt like a failure.

About two weeks ago, I worked my way through a YouVersion Bible Study that was called “All Things New” with Kevin Olusola, of the music group, Pentatonix. I highly recommend this study. He highlighted a “new” thing on each of the seven days – New Light, Focus, Identity, Joy, Spirit, Approach, and Future. He was joined on the day’s video devotional on New Approach by his podcast partner, Donovan Donnell, who made a remark that hit me right between the eyes.

The only way to get the full potential out of a thing is to be in relationship with the person who created the thing. In other words, to discover our purpose – for life, for a new year - we need to be in relationship with God.

Kevin also made this remark in the devotional for New Joy. “God is calling you to change your mindset. What perspectives do you need to shift, what endurance do you need to cultivate so that you have a lasting joy that’s not based off of a feeling, but faith in God – His processes and His promise?” Another interesting definition is of the word “cultivate” – to prepare and use or to try to acquire or to develop.

As I was beginning to work on this message, I turned on a youtube mix of Christmas songs which was set on autoplay. Auld Lang Syne was one of the selections, which got me to thinking about the song and why it is sung for New Year’s.

Auld Lang Syne is a Scottish poem, written by Robert Burns in 1788, that was later set to music. The phrase “auld lang syne” is literally translated to “old long since” in English and means something akin to “times gone by.” The first verse might be familiar to you; “Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never bought to mind? Should old acquaintance be forgot and old lang syne?” It is thought to symbolize endings AND new beginnings.

Henry Ward Beecher, who was an American clergyman in the 1800’s said, "Every man should be born again on the first day of January. Start with a fresh page. Take up one hole more in the buckle if necessary, or let down one, according to circumstances; but on the first of January let every man gird himself once more, with his face to the front, and take no interest in the things that were and are past."

I would suggest that we ought to spend some time in prayer and reflection – maybe today or tomorrow. Ask God what expectations He would like you to have for your life in the New Year and then set small, realistic steps that you can take to be in relationship with him.

Look back over the past year and take note of both the good as well as the disappointing things. Don’t dwell on the low points, but use those experiences as a starting point to change your mindset.

I came across The Great Annual Examen recently that had some very interesting questions to ask of oneself. For those of you who are not familiar with the spiritual discipline of “examen,” it is credited to St. Ignatius, who over 400 years ago, used to make a daily examination of the past 24 hours of his life.

After a General section, the Examen was divided into five sections of health: Physical, Emotional, Vocational, Relational, and Spiritual.

Here are a few of the questions from the General Section.

Where have I most experienced the presence of God this past year and why?

In the past twelve months, where have I experienced the greatest sense of consolation (peace, contentment, shalom, beauty, etc.)?

In the past twelve months, what area of my life has given me the most desolation (pre-occupation, depression, anxiety, etc.)?

Those are pretty loaded and extensive questions, aren’t they? If any of you are interested in the entire Examen, I can get you the pdf; just let me know. These three questions alone might be enough for most of us.

A way to cultivate a more intimate relationship with God may be to focus on a particular spiritual discipline that you feel you could improve upon. Some examples of these include meditation, prayer, fasting, study, simplicity, solitude, submission, service, confession, worship, guidance, and celebration. There are varying lists of spiritual disciplines. This is a list from Richard Foster who wrote the book Celebration of Discipline.

As I pointed out earlier, the YouVersion Bible app has Bible studies, both written or videos that include Scripture reading and devotionals that are set up for varying time frames that are on a variety of topics. For those of you who like “checkmarks,” it will check off the days that you have completed. But please don’t get hung up on this being a to-do list. You can set it up so that you are notified each morning of the verse of the day. There are also other apps out there that have verse-of-the-day notifications.

If more in-depth study might be appealing to you, I’ve found that there are many organizations that offer online video Bible Studies using books from various authors as the basis. I’ve done several of these. I’m actually signed up for one that starts January 16, called the God of the How and When.

Maybe you’d like to improve your prayer life – communication and conversation with God. I know I used to get frustrated that I couldn’t sit down and pray for hours at a time, but all you need to do is get started with maybe five minutes a day. Pick up a book of written prayers or work through an acrostic on the word PRAY. Start with small steps.

The BIC week of prayer and fasting is coming up next week. Mary has emails scheduled to go out each day with the link to that day’s selection. (I know that there are a couple of you who don’t have emails or computers; perhaps she’d be willing to print the booklet for you.) For this year and next, it will be focused on the Brethren in Christ Core Values. Which I would encourage, especially if you are new to the BIC.

Anyway, these are just a few suggestions to get you started.

My admonition or challenge to you is to set aside that time today or tomorrow and ask God what he’d have you focus upon for this year and pick a doable step towards working on that goal. The lifestyle change that I’ve been involved with uses the 1% factor. Just focus on improving 1% each day. Exponentially that adds up pretty quickly (don’t ask me to do the math!) That involves changing your mindset from having to go all out – 100% perfect – all or nothing. And most importantly, when you experience a set-back or miss a few days – do not quit. Take a deep breath and continue down the path that God has set for you. Another suggestion would be to get an accountability partner – someone who can encourage you to keep going when you need it most!

I hope that this brief message has been the pep talk that you need to start off the New Year with expectation, anticipation, and excitement.

I’d like to close with the Passion Translation of Psalm 32:8-9, which came up as the verse of the day in the YouVersion app this week.

I hear the Lord saying, “I will stay close to you, instructing and guiding you along the pathway for your life. I will advise you along the way and lead you forth with my eyes as your guide. So don’t make it difficult; don’t be stubborn when I take you where you’ve not been before. Don’t make me tug you and pull you along. Just come with me!”

Closing prayer:

God, we come before you at the start of this New Year, with anticipation and expectations for what this year will bring. We ask that you lead us and we say “Yes” to what you have in store for us. As the Isaiah passage said, you are doing a new thing - Give us fresh eyes to see you in new and exciting ways – in our lives and in our world. Help us to not be stubborn, but open to your leading by the Holy Spirit. Bring us to holiness, wholeness, and to health in You. Help us remember that you are our faithful God, who will continue to provide us with strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow.

Benediction from Ephesians 3:

When I think of all this, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength through his Spirit. (Ephesians 3:14-16, NLT)


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Last week, my reading-through-the-Bible plan had me in Proverbs 30. The heading in my Bible for the chapter said, The Sayings of Agur. I had failed to realize or had forgotten that King Solomon had not written all the proverbs included in this book of the Bible. (Similarly, many people think that David wrote all the psalms in the previous book!)

The study notes for Proverbs 30 indicated that not much is known about Agur. Verse one states that he was the son of Jakeh. He may have been from Massa. The notes continue "The origin of these sayings is not clear. Nothing is known about Agur except that he was a wise teacher who may have come from Lemuel's kingdom." Spoiler alert - King Lemuel is credited with writing the wise sayings/proverbs included in Chapter 31 of Proverbs; Solomon did not write the portion described as "the wife of noble character."

Once I got this concept into my head, I delved into Agur's contribution to the Book of Proverbs. (I'm using the New Living Translation.)

1 The sayings of Agur son of Jakeh contain this message.

I am weary, O God; I am weary and worn out, O God. 2 I am too stupid to be human, and I lack common sense. 3 I have not mastered human wisdom, nor do I know the Holy One.

After Agur's splendid self-introduction, I was eager to continue reading. I certainly can identify with Agur up to this point. I, too, am tired and feel like the more that I try to understand or figure God out, the less certain I am of what I do know. I'm guessing that Agur would be shaking his head as to how and why his musings were included in the canon of Scripture!

But what really got my attention were verses 7-9:

7 O God, I beg two favors from you; let me have them before I die. 8 First, help me never to tell a lie. Second, give me neither poverty nor riches! Give me just enough to satisfy my needs. 9 For if I grow rich, I may deny you and say, “Who is the Lord?” And if I am too poor, I may steal and thus insult God’s holy name.

Ouch! I don't know about you, but this hit me right between the eyes. Not the telling a lie part, but the second favor he asks of God - about money. I have been complaining, perhaps whining, about finances. Yes, the Lord's Prayer contains "give us this day our daily bread." Jesus taught that rich people may have trouble getting into the Kingdom. Paul, in Philippians 4:12 (NLT), points out "I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything."

I needed to hear/read this! I'm sure there's a perfectly good reason that God hasn't sent the miracle that I've been praying for (or demanding). Perhaps my focus should be on "Give me just enough to satisfy my needs." And then trust that God ultimately knows what I need.

Maybe Agur really was wise and not "too stupid to be human." I hope he doesn't mind that I'm going to borrow his sayings in verses 7-9 and put that into my prayer instead of my current litany of woes!


For those who might need some Monday Motivational Music, this Christian country song by Rhett Walker has been a favorite in my playlist recently.


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